15 years later i then realize that my grandma passed away two days after dumpling festival, whenever we eat ba zhang we never even remember her. She passed away in june and mum got stroke in oct that mean nobody even pray for her 1st anniversary ? Mum was in great depression during those month. No wonder that day at shan yi zi we see her date and later ruth smell strong urine smell, both of us did not smell. May be grdma is glad that at last somebody start to notice her date. May she rest in peace oh lord and let pepetual light shine upon her, eternal rest grant unto her.' yi loo how joe ' ah nan.